Dating many women once
Let’s take the example to the odds example to the meets their special someone, guaranteed.
Some may meet on the first date, some may meet on the third but no one ever needs to go beyond a fifth date.
Breaking off communication with someone I had nothing in common with, or at least who was missing qualities I was looking for, became easy.
Honestly, it was often a relief because there were more first dates waiting and I would be able to remove someone from my list of potentials.
Dating in numbers allowed me to make decisions based on what I desired, not based on how lonely I was at that time.
It also helped me better define what I was looking for in my profile. Greater Comfort One great side-effect to dating so actively was that I became more comfortable with dating itself.
Looking back, this only made my dates uncomfortable and left me looking either weird or desperate.
When I had multiple dates lined up, I found myself very relaxed on each date.
Even when things didn’t work out and my date was not interested in seeing me again, at least I knew we just weren’t a match instead of wondering if I had only done “better” would she have liked me? Improved Odds If you believe that you can get along with out there then dating few people could work for you.
On one occasion when things were going very poorly, instead of stressing out, I told my date I didn’t think we were a great match but that we could still have fun over dinner.